Pleasure Is Life

About

Do You Want:

  • to feel deeply connected to yourself and your partner?
  • to have an abundance of fun, play, and spontaneity in life?
  • to feel sexy and in your power?

Hi, I’m Zoey

I’ve been through an epic 28-year marriage and out the other side.  I’ve journeyed the depths of tantra and sacred sexuality as pathways to growth and healing.  I’ve learned to put myself first and to grow my self-love.  I’ve learned to create a life of pleasure and accomplishment.  I am grateful for my confidence, my body, my sensuality, and my ability to attract the type of lover and partner who truly meets my needs.

How did all this happen?  It all started with a Women’s Empowerment Training in 2016.  This was followed by Love & Intimacy Coaching, 4 years of Somatic Relational Therapy, and DNRS brain retraining.  I learned that sex and pleasure are beautiful sources of health and revitalization. Societal programming and trauma can get in the way, but beliefs can truly change.  Your pleasure is good for your health!  Your pleasure is your power!

"If you could trust your dreams half as much as you doubt them, you would get everything you want.” - Mama Gena

Since 2017, I have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples, mentoring healing and connection through sex and relationship.  Through communication of feelings, celebrating desires, and staying the course during tough moments, I have seen love and intimacy blossom in so many forms!

Whether you are seeking deeper romance, better sex, more sensuality, more fun, self- confidence, a life re-do, or a new partner, I can help!

As a coach!

I will support you to you find your voice and to learn to love and express yourself fully.  I will mentor pleasure practices.  I will teach you how to see and hear your partner and provide them with the sex, love and intimacy they need. 

My key approach in coaching is somatic and experiential, which means in sessions we talk, but I also participate and model relationship skills in real time.  I become a “practice partner,” sharing my authentic feelings and responses in the moment. This provides tools and perspectives to create shifts in how you navigate feelings, sexual desires and attachment needs, and how you dance the dance of partnership overall.

My areas of specialty include women’s pleasure, sensuality training for men, tantra, sexual desire discrepancy, nonmonogamy, LGBTQ+, and conscious dating.  

There is no one right approach when it comes to love and intimacy.   There is only the right next step for you!

Background and Education

Public Talks and Workshops

Talks
3 Steps to Reconnect with Your Partner and Deepen Intimacy in Your Relationship
3 Keys to Connected Love and Intimacy for Women

Classes
Sensual Woman Training Program – 8 Week group program for women

Talks
Sensual Thriving: How to Embrace Your Power and Pleasure as a Woman
Heart of Desire: Loving YOU this Valentine’s Day
3 Secrets to Living and Loving the Goddess You Are
Sex & Wellbeing
Releasing Sexual Shame
3 Sexy Secrets for a Sizzling Season
3 Keys to Creating More Love and Passion in Your Life

Classes
Getting Into Love – 8 Week group program for women

Talks
How to Give and Get Consent – Creating Authentic Connection in Dating and Relationship
Embracing Your Power and Pleasure as a Woman
Aphrodite’s Pleasure (with Herbalist Marie Zak)
The Healing Power of Pleasure
Goddess Pleasure Basics

Classes
Unleashing the Wild Feminine – Weekend Immersion for Women (with Anne-Marie Marron)
Tantra for Couples – 6 Week Intro class
Embodying the Feminine – 8 Week group program for women
Power Reclamation Ritual – online class for women
Tantric speed dating live event in Nelson, BC

Talks
3 Keys to Knowing What You Want in the Bedroom

Classes
Dust Off Your Jade Egg Online Workshop for Women
Rebirthing Your Sensual Essence Online Workshop for Women

Classes
Authentic Heart – Being Yourself in Relationship
Celebrating International Women’s Day Online Workshop for Women

Classes
Introduction to 5 Petal™ Tantra for partners and pairs – at Kootenay Yoga Festival 2024