Mens

Do you wish you could provide your partner deep pleasure?
Want to last longer in the bedroom?
Learn how to communicate your needs and boundaries?

Maybe you’ve been longing to attract an ideal partner. Or you want to be admired and adored by women. You want to follow your gut impulses and lead from your authentic masculine, the core of who you are. You want to be a better parent or a more fulfilled employee/entrepreneur.

But you are currently feeling stuck and undervalued. You’re overwhelmed by demands from a partner. You can’t seem to get it right, be enough or to keep a solid relationship. If you’re dating, you’ve been considering celibacy, learning tantra, or getting off online dating apps. Underneath, you have so much to give, and you want to let your light shine!

I bet you’ve tried men’s groups, speed dating events, or just getting out more. You’ve gone to festivals, workshops, Burning Man, or webinars. You long for a strong feminine to show you the ropes, to communicate needs and desires in a loving and kind way. And you need to feel seen and appreciated!

I 've got you!

From my marriage of 28 years and dating at 50, I have a deep understanding of what men struggle with.

I understand what you want to provide as a lover and partner. I know what challenges you face in a society where #Metoo has determined how sexual you are supposed to be.

On the one hand you are expected to perfectly seduce and romance your partner. On the other hand, you are expected to keep your sexual energy down and not come off as too creepy. In your heart of hearts, you want to open and awaken a woman and provide her so much delicious pleasure. It is in your nature.

I am here to tell you that you can have very hot and passionate intimacy. You can have a very loving, safe and communicative relationship. You can have all this! It may simply require some new learning.

This is why I created the Lovership & Leadership package for men.

Lovership & Leadership package for men

Is a set of 6 sessions where we work on your core area of growth, whether it is sex, relationship, dating, sensuality, orgasm control, or conscious communication.

Working together we will cover:

Growing your confidence as a lover
Understanding your own sexual and emotional needs
Pacing, slowing down, creating ritual and novelty in the bedroom
Foreplay, seduction and attuning to the feminine
Basic principles of tantra including whole body sensuality, breathwork, and energy circulation
How to pleasure a woman, how female sexuality works
How to communicate your feelings, needs and boundaries with love
Tips for conscious dating
How to lead from your powerful masculine without overpowering
Basics of BDSM

Here’s what you can expect

In Love & Intimacy coaching we will share honest conversations. I will share my thoughts and feelings with you as an embodied feminine and practice partner. Sessions may also include learning games for communication and touch. Touch practices will help you open the world of expanded sensuality so you can feel more and offer more to a partner. You will be given suggestions on how to practice PC muscle control so you can last longer and have deeper, more fulfilling orgasms. I will also guide you in how to circulate sexual energy so you can harness it, not just for sex but for your life. Becoming a better lover will make you a better leader. You will have more energy, more creative inspiration, more confidence, more mental clarity and more ability to follow through with whatever goals you set to achieve. You will also be able to match a strong partner and lead in your relationship while being beautifully guided and influenced. You will feel solid in knowing how to meet the needs of a partner while balancing out your own healthy boundaries and desires.

If this all sounds like a lot of hard work, then think about any goal you’ve ever wished to achieve. Wasn’t the work worth it? And you won’t be alone! I have witnessed dozens of men step into their power and sexual confidence by following the right program, by being willing to seek support, and by honouring the wisdom of a coach or guide. My clients have gone on to find their ideal partner, move towns, buy homes, get out of non-serving partnerships, save marriages, and start businesses.

My lovership & leadership coaching package is for you if

you are feeling confused or ineffective in relationship
you’re dating and wanting to attract an ideal partner
you feel sexually shut down or emasculated
you’re challenged to keep an erection or last in the bedroom
you have difficulty asserting personal boundaries and you let yourself be pushed over
you struggle with time alone and tend toward dopamine activities that leave you feeling empty
you want a powerful feminine partner but admit that you are also afraid of achieving that
you’re trying to find the balance between freedom and responsibility as a man
you want to be more creative and to contribute more in this world

Testimonials

Working with Zohana brought me into my power. I’m standing taller and I feel more confident with women. I didn’t realize how much I had to offer as a lover/partner. Zohana helped me see my strengths and learn how to honor and communicate boundaries. I have moved homes and am feeling much happier in my dating life now!

I’ve never been able to speak so freely or share my feelings like this. I’m learning that being vulnerable is what creates connection in relationship. It feels like such a relief just to be myself.

I had been wanting to learn about tantra, but I didn’t know just how much it would change my life. Zohana is an amazing “practice partner” both with the tantra teachings but also just as a gorgeous human being. My sessions with her led me to moving towns and meeting my life partner! I’m so grateful our paths crossed.

It is so refreshing to encounter a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to ask for it! Zohana helped me clear the way to meet my Beloved by modelling a strong divine feminine and appreciating my gifts as a masculine. She has a very accepting, encouraging and loving presence. Zohana helped me step into my own needs and wants. I met my Beloved just months after our time together.

I have loved working with Zohana. Her insights and gentle nudges have been helpful in my career and life. Zohana's knowledge of tantra, trauma and spiritual realms helped me to better understand my boundaries and to integrate my psychic abilities into my body. Zohana has shown me ways of being in the world that I didn't know were possible. And she helped me get my own coaching business off the ground. I definitely recommend her as a coach.

Zohana guides me through my evolution in a manner that is almost imperceptible. It feels like it's just coming from within me. She makes me feel safe and accepted, which is the basis for all growth. I highly recommend her services.

You’re gonna be amazed.

Coaching

may not be for you if you are already in a deeply fulfilling relationship, if you know how to communicate well, you’re satisfied with your sex life, and you feel comfortable with asserting your place in your life and in the world.

Is it time to hire a coach?

I recommend 6-12 sessions as a baseline, to meet your goals.

In the first session we will sit down and look at where you want to be in your life and in your love life. Then we will make an action plan.

By purchasing a coaching package, you receive a 15% discount off regular single sessions. My men clients often purchase a few Lovership & Leadership packages before they achieve their goals. We generally work together for around 9 months, or longer if desired.

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